Ali,
Are you in touch with COFEPOW (Children and Families of Far East Prisoners of War)? If not, I 'm sure they'd love to hear from you and would do all they could to help. I worked with them in 2001 when we commemorated Old Boys of Thetford Grammar School who had died in the Far East and I am still in touch. It is a fine organisation working hard to highlight the plight of FEPOWs.
www.cofepow.org.uk
Regards,
David